For The Love Of Ray J – Monica Danger Talks About Her Mental Problems
Former ‘For The Love of Ray J’ contestant, Monica Danger has been through a lot recently that ended up landing her in a padded room….she even shaved her head… (SEE PHOTO HERE)
Danger opened up to VH1 about what this has all been like for her,
On her supposed breakdown: I don’t like the word “breakdown,” because it suggests weakness. I’m not a weak person, I’m very strong. I just went through something, and now I’m healing. I didn’t know how much pain I was in, because I keep a lot of things inside. I’m not keeping things inside anymore. I cut my hair so I could start a new life. I’m reborn as a different person, and I’m focusing on being the best mom I can be.
When you get famous, people try to tear you apart, and I’m very famous right now. I’m just focusing on being around positive people and being a good mother. All the publicity and the Internet and all that will kill you if you let it. My fans, and everybody, shouldn’t believe the things on the Internet that they say about me, unless I’m saying it. There’s that much jealousy. People want me to fail, and I’m not going to fail. I’ve never failed. I’m a person who wins.
Everything I want to do, I do. I achieve things. Just because I had a moment where I was dealing with some problems through postpartum depression, it does not mean that I won’t continue to succeed in my life, no matter what I do.
On her improvement: So many people have oppressed me and hurt me that I felt like this could happen at any time. I can’t be that person anymore. I have a daughter. I want to be a mom. I want to have more children and be married and happy. As soon as I’m able to be all the way better, negative thoughts won’t cross my mind.
On abandoning the nickname “Danger:” I’ll always be Danger. She’s part of me. She’s my creation. Since I was 19, I’ve been that person. But I have control. I can control who I am. I’ve playing Danger for a long time. And I’m tired of playing Danger.
I am happy to hear it! Good luck to you, Monica. You can do it girl!
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You don’t need luck when you got Jesus! Do you Monica n let the Lord fight your battles HE can turn all the negativity into a positive… I’m praying for you
Monica i am praying for you please dont blame yourself . blame no one .
you are a normal girl with a very rare pretty face . beauty attracts a LOT of negativity, the second troubled people see something beautiful? trust me……..they are in a RUSH to transform that beauty into the ugliest thing in the world . Look to Allah for help that will ALWAYS be the ONLY way , as a person who does not personally face to face know you i still wish the same for you that i do for myself . and i want you to have a good husband Insha Allah , this makes perfect sense to me .
danger everyone goes through something in their life thats not always gonna get a good reaction but forget everyone no one can judge u till they have walked in ur shoes …love u girl keep ya head up
Monica, be strong and remember the devil is a liar. He comes to kill, steal and destroy. We are only human born of sinful flesh. Don’t be so hard on yourself stay positive, and like you said stay surrounded by positive people it helps.
I’m also a mother of three. I understand the depression phase of it. It will all get better in time.
Don’t ever stop praying. I’m rootin for ya ma.