The Bachelor – Is Tenley Molzahn A Huge Liar, Liar Pants On Fire?
Tenley Molzahn comes across on The Bachelor like a very sweet, innocent girl who got badly burned in her previous marriage. But, it looks like another side to this story is coming out. Tenley’s ex-husband, Ryan Natividad is engaged to the woman that Tenley claims he cheated on her with. And this woman told Us Weekly that Tenley isn’t “the sweet girl everyone thinks. She’d only allow sex once a week…and sometimes she withheld it,” says Christina Latham. She insists, “There’s no way she loved him.”
She also claims that Tenley “wouldn’t let him see his family.”
Okay… this is SO not the impression we’ve been getting from Tenley? What is really going on?
One of Tenley’s friends says that, ”She loved Ryan deeply. If there was any bad treatment, it was instigated by him.”
What do you think? Who is full of it and who is telling the truth? Sound off below!
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I know Tenley and her ex-husband, Ryan. I even attended their wedding. When they first met, we were all so impressed by her poise and seeming graciousness. However, as their marriage progressed, it became readily apparent to family and friends that Tenley really had no concept of the give and take that must occur in a healthy relationship. Things had to be her way, all the time, no compromises. Ryan did not–and hear me on this–did NOT commit adultery. He sought a divorce. Period. And throughout the breakup, most of the people here in So. California who knew them both transferred their sympathies to Ryan, not Tenley. Perhaps she finds it easier to believe that he is an adulterer, because it would allow her to ignore her own contributions to the marriage’s failure. I have always felt sorry for her, if truth be told. She’s got all the trappings of a nice girl with good character…but she needs to grow up a lot before she should attempt another marriage.
I’m guessing “Mrs. Anna” is the new wife of her ex-husband. I’ve often found that if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with her husband, it’s not because she is “frigid,” but because she doesn’t trust her husband and that is affecting her desire for him. Scummy men love to claim that their exes were “frigid,” and pretend that none of that was their fault.
I don’t like to judge…and won’t…but I would love to find out for myself. No one deserves to have love un-returned…and my heart goes out to Tenley…and I feel for her ex if, indeed that is what he experienced. But I know that since her divorce I can understand the pain that Tenley now endures…in having so much love to give…and in trying to move on with those life experiences…and would love the chance to meet her and show her that neither Ryan…nor Jake were the right guy for her.
I was very impressed in the way that Tenley handled being let go by Jake. She showed a lot of character at a time when she could have easily became defensive and not supportive of Jake and Vienna. However, she didn’t do this. She looked out for his best interest even though it didn’t involve her. To me this shows real love for someone.
I think she is a sweet lady and one that any man would be proud to call his wife. If I wasn’t married, I reach out to her personally. All the best to you Tenley, you are quite a lady both physically and emotionally.
I’m glad Jake made the right decision. It looked like Tenley was thinking she could eventually win him over even after he made his decision. Like he said, he was trying to act the way he thought she would want him to, not the way he really was. It seems like Ms Anna’s comment might be true. She has a way about her that would be too one sided. Vienna brings out the best in him. She is really a warm, sensitive woman.
To tell you the truth, I don’t know how any man could stand Tenley’s voice for too long. Sounds like a cartoon character. Like fingernails on a chalk board !!! YIKES !!!
i think jake made the right decision choosing vienna…from what was portrayed of tenley i tend to believe mrs. anna…
Being a young man (prob the only one on here), and the same age as Tenley, I can say that Tenley was a doll. I hated to see her hurt, didn’t understand Jake’s decision and agree with her entirely when she said that one day he would regret his decision.
He will.
Jake chose lust over love when he chose Vienna.
And the only reason there was so much fire between Jake and Vienna was because she was constantly seducing him, while Tenley maintained her composure as a lady. It is no surprise there wasn’t the same degree of fire.
Tenley is a class act…too classy to have been on The Bachelor show.
I love tenley and her voice is so pretty! Shes so innocient and thats what i love about her!
I think all of you are living in a dream world. I do not know Tinley what so ever but what i will say is this woman is fake as a 3 dollar bill. Looking at how she started a rumor on national tv about some disturbed girl Michelle who is already an outcast shows what Tinley is. Definitely a cruel person with an ugly heart. Any woman who would start a rumor then deny starting that rumor when confronted just shows me they’re trash!
Give me a break – Tenley is a liar – most of you must have missed her drama spot on BP – regarding Michele. She made up something and then turned everyone on Michele. That was completely unnecessary and it was based on what she thought. Even if it was true – there were other people doing the same thing. And then the crying face and I am so innocent….she has been married..she is attention seeking and wants FAME. I hope she loses. Kypton must be stupid….I agree with Nicole and Ms. Anne does not sound angry in the least bit. If anything those that are so bent on defending Tenely are either Tenely or one of her friends ….(you must be as messed up)….if you lost Ten…2 bad …you needed the $$ for shrink visits…